Friday, June 3, 2011

Samuel William Beardsley

We've welcomed our newest addition!

Samuel William Beardsley was born on May 28, 2011, at 1:26 p.m.
He was 9 lbs. 9 oz. and 21 inches long.
Definitely the biggest Beardsley boy yet!

He, and we are home and enjoying his sweet baby sounds, smells and emerging little personality.
His brothers are so excited! Joey always asks questions about what he is doing, "Why is baby Sammy crying?" "Can I play some music for Sammy?" and Matthew is excited whenever he gets to see him (and he's not stashed somewhere for a peaceful nap). He always asks "See baby?" "Baby, where go?".

It is our great hope that these guys will be thicker than thieves, a great band of brothers, and best friends for their whole lives. (and my great hope that I don't completely lose my mind!)

Friday, May 20, 2011

The Making of a Middle



In lieu of actually giving birth to a baby... I am going to write about my current baby, Matthew, a much promised blog about what is going on with him.
I had great fun looking at pictures of him to use to write this blog. I might have teared up a bit. I can't believe how big he has grown in 23 months and that at this age, Joey was already a big brother.

Matthew has been talking lots. He loves to try out new words and will try to say anything we ask him too, even if he mostly just hums the word. Some of his favorite words to say: "Jojo, where go? more, thank you, dinosaur (this is the newest), choo-choo, truck (cuck), hot, out, up, go, shoes, socks, uh-oh, see-ya" and I'm sure there are many more that I am forgetting about.

Our Matthew is a little comedian and loves to make us laugh. He loves to make Joey laugh and do ANYTHING that his big brother is doing. He must also HAVE anything that Joey has, from salt on his eggs, to the exact same toy at the exact same time.

Matthew sleeps well, but markedly less than Joey at the same age. We have to wake him after no more than a 2 hour nap, and even with that, he can easily go to bed at 8 or 8:30 and wake well rested at 7. He often rocks himself to sleep or shakes the crib (sometimes with eyes half open). He seems to go to sleep best with a car or two and he'll lay on his side and make his "vehicle moving" sound until he lulls himself to sleep. He's pretty relaxed about his waking up and seems to need some time in his crib to play before we get him up, which works well for us.

He loves to eat. Loves. It's so nice after Joey being a bit smaller and a little less eager to eat. Matthew's favorite foods are meats and fruits. He'll pick lunch meat and cheese out of a sandwich first and eat any fruit first (of course), but he's great about his veggies, and very willingly will eat, peas, beans, broccoli, salads, beets, and cooked veggies, like peppers, and zucchinis. He does NOT like potatoes in any form, french fried or baked or even in hash brown form. Weirdo.

His favorite toys are trucks, and especially fire trucks. Truck books, actual trucks, shows about trucks, just driving around and seeing trucks. He's not too crazy about books yet, and not that into coloring or play-doh but give him wheels and he is a happy guy!

While I still wouldn't put him in the same category of management as say, the dog, he is nowhere near as compliant as Joey at the same age. He's just as likely to run away laughing when we tell him to "come here" as he is to actually come, and obedience is more of a teaching process for him. He's also a very emotional little guy and while the highs and lows come and go quickly, taking a toy often looks just like cutting off a limb for 30 seconds, and a good trip down the slide can be akin to a brand new toy.

Even though he's been walking since he was 15 months old he is still ECSTATIC to get out of the house/stroller/shopping cart etc, and be free to run without holding on to a hand. He gets a look of glee on his face and takes off and can go for.ev.er. He is a little turbo and sometimes I am afraid to blink.

I'm afraid with the 3rd coming that I have learned all too well how quickly it goes from the first gaze, to the first steps, to the first haircut, and word and sentence and all of a sudden the baby who you waited so long for has become a preschooler. I cannot wait for Baby Beardsley #3 to come, but I am so glad for every day where my soon-to-be middle child, is still my youngest baby. He is precious and so dear to Matt and I. His smiling face is like nothing I have ever seen and boy, can he make us laugh! I can't imagine not having my "Matthew in the Middle" and I hope he will always know how special he is to us.


Saturday, March 19, 2011

Helping Out

Joey has been really into helping out around the house (and especially in the kitchen) in the last few months. Most of the time, it is lovely, as there is really stuff he can do now, (unload the silverware from the dishwasher, return things to their proper place in different rooms in the house, wake Matthew up from his nap and give him toys, etc...). Sometimes it is difficult because he wants to be with me, or Matt, working and we don't always have something for him to do easily.

I'm looking forward to him getting older and being able to do more, and hoping that at the same time, he stays interested in helping and proud of contributing. Any suggestions for how to keep this magic alive are welcome....

In the meantime, here are some pictures of Joey helping with stuff....
In the above picture we were just starting to make Kale chips...
Ok, so that's only 2 pictures... but I took some more today of his latest favorite activity which is helping Matt roast our coffee beans. This is sooo much less expensive than buying them already roasted and Matt really enjoys doing it (and Joey LOVES helping) and I just love that they are both happy and it's cheaper. Joey is responsible for putting the chaff that flies out in the process in the sink, and helping Matt spread and cool the beans, and then pouring them into their jars.

Some of his other favorite jobs/new responsibilities include: sweeping (with his little dustpan and sweeper), clearing his dishes into the sink, cleaning up all the toys in his room and playroom, brushing his own teeth, dressing/undressing himself (this is still a little difficult when something ends up inside out), unloading or loading parts of the dishwasher, and helping cook ANYTHING.

Stay tuned for a Matthew update!

Monday, January 24, 2011

MIA - Not ME!

Not me! I haven't been missing in action since, oh, I don't know... November? The summer? 2009?? Obviously I am one of those people who can just juggle 2 kids, a couple of part-time jobs, housework, a husband, a preschool co-op, and mundane things like laundry and grocery shopping with ease.

I certainly haven't transferred all of my people updating effort onto *whispers* facebook. Not me. nope.

If I walked into someone else's house right now, and their bedroom, looked like my bedroom does right now, I wouldn't feel sorry for them. Uh uh.

My Christmas decorations are ALL put away. I didn't juuuuust put away the tree and ornaments and stuff in our living room and feel sooooo proud of my large pregnant self, that I stopped. 3 weeks ago. Not me! :-)

I am almost certain to beginning blogging again with regularity and vibrance, despite the impending approach of our third son and disintegrating appearance of my house. Yes sir!

Among other.... things.... I did not tell Joey that he could wait a minute before we listened to his kids praise c.d. so I could hear this song in the car:

Obviously not, because I don't even like country. :-) riiiiiight. not me! On that same note, my son does not think the song "American Honey" is about that stuff he likes to put on his waffles. And does not ask me, when any song comes on the radio if it is the "Come Back Song".

And although I would love to catch you all up more I have loads and loads of work to do, including lots of household cleaning and tidying, which I will be faithfully doing ALL evening, and most definitely NOT watching any bad reality t.v. that ABC might have on tonight, including, but not limited to, The Bachelor. Because really, if you had looked ahead online at this season's spoilers (which I wouldn't) and already knew who the winner was (which I didn't!) then it wouldn't really matter watching the drama (which it doesn't!), now would it?

Happy Monday!
And for your viewing pleasure: (ONE of Joey's favorite songs)

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

June

Ok, I'm going to work on a little back-tracking. Just a bit.
In June, we were excited to travel for a while. We went on vacation with the Beardsley Family, went to/were in my high school friend Christina's wedding (which conveniently was in Asheville), and celebrated Matthew's first birthday with BOTH sides of our family at the same party! (A big feat if the family is 7 hours apart!)
It was such a great blessing to be able to see so much family, participate in a great friend's wedding, and get a V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N. I'm ready for another already. :-)

Here's just a little taste:

Nothing like a good family photo to end the trip!


Friday, October 22, 2010

Now Don't Get All Excited..

This is for Lexie who reminded me that I don't have to catch up on everything that happened, I just have to talk about what's happening now. *sigh of relief*

Hoping to be back to writing soon!